Sunday, April 29, 2012

where do you stand???

there's a big difference in being alone and  being lonely....

 minsan naman talaga it's not a guarantee that being with someone can make you happy or can make that person happy.... wat if.. napilitan lng pala siya kasi no choice n eh.. tipong there's no turning back this time kasi mas mgging complicated ang situations pg ginawa ko...at dhil akala mo nag-stand n siya s ganung decision... howell.. man enough n siya to prove to you n mahal k pala niya... kasi nag-stick sya s yo eh... pero wat if nga hindi pala.. and sooner or later, makikita mo din pala ang lahat... ang mas malinaw n picture... dhil alam mo s sarili mong nakakapagod din pala ang ganitong set-up....  would you choose being alone or lonely????

most of the time, we try to make ourselves believe  n being with someone is the best choice and fighting for it is most rewarding... pero what if ikaw pala ang nkikipaglaban until this time... that despite all the things you've done and you've sacrifice for that person... hoping someday.. he would love you back.. eh nararamdaman mong it's not as what you expected or hope it would be... alam nating most of the time ayaw natin aminin pero you can never hide the truth of it... co'z whether or not you hide it and make face with other people.. at the end of the day.. exhausted ka kasi alam mo s sarili mo yung totoo.... hindi k p din masaya.... would you chose being alone or being lonely??

we tried to make ourselves p nga believe n wat does that person says is true.. pero hindi kaya ikaw lang ang gustong maniwala s sinasabi niya kasi ito yung makakapg-satisfy s yo at para n lng to make the long story short or i-shortcut n lng ntin.. eh d sige, maniniwala k n khit p nga iba ito s totoong nararamdaman at sinasabi ng puso at isip mo... hindi b ganun??? kasi ang totoo, ayaw mong masaktan.... ayaw mong ma-reject s huli....would you choose being alone or being lonely??

well, i think at the end of the day.. choose nothing from this two... why choose to be being alone or being lonely when you can be happy being alone.... don't let fear continue to strikes you down, dearest... there's a lot of wonderful things awaits you... whether if your with someone or your all alone... it's a matter of mindset....before, you've got to live your life alone... no lovelife.. no frends.. no acquaintances... and yet your doing fine... who in this world can tell you now that you cannot experience that same happiness just like before???

khit kasi me kasama ka or nag-iisa ka lang kung pinipili mong maging malungkot or magpaka-praning s kalungkutan... naku naman,,, malungkot k tlg... at hindi yan dhil alone k or wat... e db nga, me kasama ka man ngayon.. pero ang tanong ko lng... msaya ka ba talaga o nagsasaya-sayahan lang para lang tahimik ang pligid... ksi kung ano ang nkkta ng pligid, yun ang alam nilang totoo at tapos, wala ng tanong-tanong.. o db.. safe n safe k.. kasi alam mong d k pwedeng mag-lie kpg tinanong k n ng isang tao...

pero bilib naman ako s yo eh... alam kong alam mong dumiskarte s buhay n ito... alam kong s mtagal n panahon n pinagsamahan ntin eh, sigurado nmn akong mdmi k n din bagay n natutunan...

basta wag ka lang magpaka-praning h???  alam ko naman n alam mo ang sagot dito eh.....

THAT BIG DIFFERENCE IN BEING ALONE AND BEING LONELY.....




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